How many crappy hours of a day do you spend in brutally abusing others for the things going on in your life..? how many fractions of a second would you have cursed the driver of the usual bus you board,for coming a bit earlier than you did..? well I ve did it a zillion of times! The times I didn’t get a ticket for my favorite movie,the day I missed to attend a function at home,the day I forgot to take the damned hall ticket of my exam…loads of it..multiple silly things! It could start from not getting the proper food u wanted at a new place to the job you don’t deserve.. we grab hold of every single chance of letting someone other than us, hear,“its all your bloody mistake”..
Is this what’s really happening? I can’t help but notice the many flaws in my statements, when I’m awfully cooled ,after everything goes right by the end of the day.. it all comes to this point in life..the point where you know or fully cherish the wisdom of your choices..the point where your mind is calm and settled without anymore internal battles of making the right decision..! so how the hell does this point in life reached.. I have NOT a clue! But..
I am a great believer of destiny..hear me right! I believe in destiny and not fate..yes..! there is a difference, if you are wondering! Broadly speaking, fate is something predetermined and the finality of everything..and destiny is just a ‘probable’ outcome!! Uhhh..ok..lets say fate is something that always END bad and destiny is something that has a little edge over fate in being more pleasant(I’m sure Wikipedia has a better explanation)..our destiny has an edge over fate because of a small(really BIG..!) thing called CHOICES!
You wake up,hit your noisy alarm to just shut up.!you decide you wanna sleep a liiitle more than usual..so u do so! Obvious sequelae is going through a much nerve -wrecking than usual morning schedule..comprising AGAIN of the obvious ‘missing the bus/train sequence’..well, you can imagine the rest of the day..! A choice can be as simple as this or as big as deciding to work your own way through a new electronic gadget(it would end disastrous for me..machines hate me).!the most important thing here is..your choices make the person you REALLY are! At this stage of life, might be we are the dependent group..might be we are biased about our choices depending on stupid adult recklessness..! Becoming aware of what’s really right and really horrific is..shall we say..always just a pandemonium.! Let’s just say that you have got your wisdom teeth now and you are growing into a rational human being..in that case,our choices is that all it matters…
Destiny can be made of millions of anti-climax,sorrowful or fairy tale endings..it doesn’t change in any one single good or bad deed in your life but every single choices you made.!Consider this.. If you come to know that your lover is going to die in one day,might be you will make a better choice of giving her the best day of her life rather than telling her that things are not going good between the both of you..the choice of doing so,gives you the warmth of providing happiness to your lover and make HER also know that she made the right choice of loving you!..but her death is not in your control..it’s inevitable and cruel..The only thing is that you can vanish all your tears at her death by knowing you made the right choice! Some things in life are out of our control..but always make choices that will lead you in a better path to your destiny!
Where your heart lies,is where your destiny awaits!
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