THE CONVENTIONALISTS

We read an ample amount of motivational quotes every day. I read this..

“Yesterday is history, Tomorrow is a mystery, Today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the Present”—what an extraordinary thought. One Might say! I thought it was full of BS!

Is everything that prosaic? Is the past that ill-definable with regards to our ‘Present’? If future is to be so enigmatic and decipherable, why the relentless pressure to live towards it? Why does every aspect of ‘Living’ be defined in such abstract? Who the hell are these people who create the most despicable...STEREOTYPES!?

Millions of nerves, neurons and synapses connect in a way in sending a singular, collective message to the brain...it does not always involve in a Beneficial ACTION though. A society in par with the same hierarchy also is shortsighted...Large and hugely! A single person with a borrowed thought...says he wants to do business just LIKE his big brother or uncle—He accomplishes this feat with no less effectiveness than what his idol has achieved—he is extremely proud when everyone around him(who has no idea what the business it ,but just the final numbers)cherishes his success as if it was their OWN(Commensals)—business flourishes ,and every time for the next few years he receives the same level of acknowledgement as  his first success—eventually people are worn out ,so is the boy. His dream was a brainchild of his idol...He has fulfilled that now. His measurement of happiness was dependent on relations with other people...people who were just mere mirrors, who showed what he wanted to see. His life becomes repetitive, with his growth merely in money and not to satisfy a never ceasing passion for living. Where does his soul reside? With his family or his friends, perhaps?

The most primal thing in this universe is that all men are born selfish. Self-involved with the thoughts of existence. He will not perish easily..He invests every energy in his body to be an INDIVIDUAL among billions. His craving for being his UNIQUE self would never be satisfied if his actions seek the approval of secondary characters. Only when his primary thought involves his OWN hunger, will he smile… Smile is such an underrated emotion!

Every friend of ours...each and every one of them might love the numerous ways of your being. The way you help others, do not hold a grudge, listen patiently and many others. I hope you all find a pattern in that.. the pattern involves you being the perfect human being..in all the CONVENTIONAL AND STEREOTYPICAL way possible. If ..you supposedly step a liiiitle out of that..say that you have changed first time in your life for your OWN well-being! For your OWN survival, you adapted some new...Shall we say ‘a flaky’ approach? Suddenly the dynamics you have created around you does not encompass a cardinal rule of the supreme JUDGEMENTALISTS! They are so threatened by this..they blame you .they are angry at you..Because we have depraved their way of life and found our own. Simply said… it’s not EASY...BOOK- STANDARD EASY anymore to deal with you.

If surviving is considered egotistical and arrogant...If the most important aspect of YOU is nothing to your close allies...not even as a sound they recognize, then why should a secondary character exist in your life’s equation?! If someone can look into your eyes full of pain and say ‘Shit happens’ and has a hearty laugh in the most twisted of situations… Hold on to THEM dearly!

An ideal of a person can be criticized and ridiculed... it will be fought to be kept by a worthy person. But when they pass a judgment on a PERSON rather than his ideals…just because they don’t comprehend it? That’s the true hell on earth. Every individual has a story and path of their own.. Everyone should find a way to keep their life full of light..light that makes you smile! The smile only a very few will understand. The smile of integrity and compassion for oneself, which eventually translates to the laughter around you. Serves people the much needed unconditional love rather than sympathy and money.

 If someone identifies themselves with another person up to the molecular level, they do not exist. They are artifacts of the universe. CONVENTIANILISTS have caged every discipline there is…You are a criminal if you do not yield to your society, you are a failure if you don’t have a MAINSTREAM educational degree to your name, its inhuman if you don’t sympathize and cry over a public tragedy, if you don’t like talking to your relations, it doesn't mean you are an introvert with brains but an ANTI-SOCIAL menace, you are not even close to something called ‘beautiful’ if you don’t look a ‘particular’ structured way. I’m not even going to mention the ‘Marriage’ sector. Worst of all, you CANNOT SURVIVE THE WORLD if you fall into the above description.  Pity is a small word to describe what we should feel about the WELL-READ group of the Conventionalists.

What does erudition even mean if you are not consumed by a wider understanding of your priorities?

This society which we have created with so many news-worthy ugly stories...is the end product of everything we have digested thru the years. Securing ourselves in a shell that was created by our ancestors’ thoughts and rules does not establish your existence in this world. There is no one to blame but ourselves if we still keep feeding the Ugly Truth. Being innocent to the FEAR of fitting-in is the base for being the ‘fittest’ to survive.

Passion for life is where everyone’s heart should rest.. Humbled with integrity!